FEMME DOMMES 3
From David W:
Dear Elise, thank you for your wonderful web site. Typically the one in control, it was refreshing to have the tables turned on me by a fabulous female supremacist. Regrettably she has left the country, but Not after years of experiencing her brand of female authority.
Our first meeting was simple but intense. I was immediately taken back by her beauty as we rode up in The elevator to her apartment. The excitement of what lay ahead and my apprehensiveness did nothing to Prevent my arousal, noticing this, she grabbed my crotch and squeezed hard. Her words were simple...understand who is in control.
Inside he apartment, we sat on her couch and casually chatted until she quite matter of fact demanded that I strip in front of her and place my clothes in a neat pile on the chair. Kneeling on the floor, she inspected me front and back, head to toe. She proceeded to pinch my nipples and put two clamps over them, tightening the screws until I winced.
Over her knee, a brisk spanking was followed by a rectal exam and before I could squirm away, a cold thermometer took the place of a lubricated latex glove.
My humiliation was about to take yet another turn. Imagine my surprise when there was a knock at the door and an equally beautiful female friend joined us. I was spanked by the friend and ushered into the washroom. On the sink, a jar of lubricant, a fresh set of gloves and a huge bulb syringe with a menacing nozzle. After a series of warm soapy enemas, I was dragged back to the living room by my leash. I was ordered to lick the women's anus while the other each took turns taking me from behind with a strap on.
The visit ended with me in the shower, soaping up and masturbating for the women. After the session I felt that a lot of tension had exited and despite the humiliation and relinquishing of control, the craving continues. My exhibitionist tendencies and desire for discipline and giving up control needs regular and ongoing attention.
It's great to read that other dominant females and submissive men crave similar authority and are treated to similar experiences at the hands of powerful goddesses.
From Lisa M:
Dear Elise: My name is Lisa. I am an attractive dominant woman in my late thirties. I am also a psychologist, and I make extensive use of both classical (Pavlovian) and operant conditioning in the training of male slaves. I also utilize principles of ethology (animal behavior) as well as principles of social psychology and social influence. I am currently in a FemDom marriage, and my husband is my total and complete slave. I love my husband very much but his total submission is an absolute requirement of our marriage.
I am a staunch believer in female supremacy, and I like to use my extensive knowledge of psychology, behavior modification, and slave training in order to help other women learn how to turn males into devoted and obedient slaves. The topic I will be discussing in this message is the use of a powerful humiliation technique in the training of male slaves. The technique I am referring to is that of requiring a straight male submissive to suck another man's cock.
As a female supremacist, I do not suck men's penises, EVER!!! In all the years of our marriage, I have never sucked my husband's penis and he knows that I never will. We have a very good sex life. I keep my husband's penis locked in a chastity device, and he is required to lick my pussy on command. I also require him to pleasure me often with my favorite vibrator and dildo. I do allow him to have intercourse with me approximately once per week, but ONLY if I am thoroughly pleased with his recent behavior; otherwise he is teased mercilessly and denied orgasm for another week (or two, or three, or more). I believe the male chastity device is probably the most effective tool available for slave training and male behavior modification, but I will leave that for another time.
Forced cock-sucking has several powerful psychological effects on the submissive male, and, when used properly, it will significantly increase a Domme's control over her slave. While this technique IS gaining in popularity, it is still greatly under-used, and many Domme's do not understand its awesome power as a means of eliminating the male's resistance to total submission.
It is important to require male slaves to suck cock for several very good reasons. For example, sucking penises is often seen as a passive and submissive act of servitude. Because of this, most men see sucking penises as a strictly "female" activity, and much of their male pride is based on the idea that they would never engage in this type of female/submissive behavior. This is part of the macho-male mentality, which implies that females are supposed to serve males and engage in submissive sexual behaviors for their enjoyment. In order to properly train a male slave, all traces of male pride and the macho male mentality MUST be eliminated, which is what this technique is designed to help accomplish. It is important to note that this technique is very similar in principle to that of strap-on dildo training, but I will leave that topic for another time.
Men, by nature, respect power, and their evolutionary development has programmed them to submit to someone who is seen as more powerful. Unfortunately, it has also programmed them to attempt to dominate or exploit someone whom they perceive as weaker. This is the essence of the dominance hierarchy seen in the animal kingdom. Therefore, in order for a male to completely submit to a woman, he must see her as being more powerful than he. Exerting this degree of power and control (forced cock-sucking) over a male has a powerful psychological effect, which triggers his natural tendency to submit in a dominance hierarchy.
I first trained my husband by forcing him to suck the rubber and silicon cocks that attach to my strap-on harness. This frequent exercise prepared him for the act of sucking a live penis. This went on for a long time until I finally met a man I could use in the further training of my husband. I met Steve who is a submissive male that I occasionally dominate. We are friends and he is tall, muscular, handsome, and has a great respect for women. He is straight, but he is very kinky.
To prepare my slave-husband for a forced cock-sucking session, I have him strip completely naked, put a collar and leash on him, put him on his knees, put a snug cock ring on him, and securely lock his hands behind his back. In order to maximize his feeling of helplessness, I also cuff his ankles together and loosely chain them to his hands. I find this kneeling hog-tie position quite useful and I use it often with my slave. I prepare my slave in this manner because it is very humiliating for a male slave to be kept naked around another male who is clothed. It also makes him feel very weak, vulnerable, and submissive. The collar is also very humiliating in the presence of another male. The kneeling position induces submissiveness, creates a feeling of powerlessness, and also increases the humiliation factor. The cock ring keeps the penis sensitive and erect, which is also quite humiliating. It also makes the testicles more exposed and sensitive to punishment.
Note: A female can force a bound and naked male to do ANYTHING she wants just by administering the proper amount of pain to his helpless testicles. It is important to note however, that I do not actually force my husband to do this against his will (and I don't advise anyone else to do so either); he always has the option of refusal.
After my slave is prepared in this fashion, I take some time to tease him and lightly torture him. I tell him that my male friend is coming over in a few minutes and that I expect him to do a VERY good job of sucking his cock. This is very humiliating for him, and heightens his anxiety by getting him to start thinking about the scene before it actually starts. Then I briefly and lightly punish his balls by grabbing, squeezing, and spanking them with my riding crop. While doing this, I tell him that I will administer severe pain to his balls if he does not obey completely, and I make sure that he understands! When Steve arrives, I greet him at the door cheerfully and allow him to give me a brief hug and a kiss on the cheek. I taunt my slave by saying things like "Look honey, Steve's here. I know how much you have been wanting his cock lately!"
Then Steve and I sit on the couch, drink gourmet coffee, and have some pleasant conversation while my slave kneels in front of us. I like him to anticipate what is about to happen as the waiting torments my husband. After awhile, I order Steve to present himself to my husband. Steve is also submissive and totally heterosexual. He does not like another man to suck his cock but he gets his thrill in knowing that a woman is making him submit to this.
Steve undresses and presents his cock to my husband. I stroke his cock and make my husband lick and suck his balls while I taunt them both about what is about to happen. I order Steve to rub his cock on my husband's face for awhile, and then on my command, he sticks it in his mouth and I command my husband to suck. I taunt my husband mercilessly as he sucks his cock, and I will order him to suck harder and faster. Steve must tell me when he is about to cum, and I will order Steve to hold it back until I give the command. I know that Steve is healthy so I allow him to cum in my husband's mouth and I order my hubby to swallow every last drop. Then he must thank Steve for allowing him to suck his cock. I usually have Steve go home right after the scene because watching this makes me very horny and I want to tease my husband and have some orgasms. I feel extremely powerful making two men sexually entertain me in this way.
My husband finds these sessions VERY humiliating and he hates them very much. I like to tease him about his cock sucking and I often threaten to have Steve come over for a "little visit" if he is not a good slave. This type of training has been very helpful in eliminating any traces of the macho male attitude and obtaining my husband's complete submission. I use this technique about once every three months or so to maintain my husband's proper submissive attitude.
From Jason R:
Miss Elise Sutton, I just want to share my somewhat amazing journey my wife and I have been on.
From the very beginning, ours was a marriage of oddity. My wife is 45 years young and 15 years my senior. She is also two inches taller than me at 6ft. However these are merely physical attributes. We started off as a traditional couple with virtually no femdom overtones. I worked and had a successful career while she became a homemaker. We had a happy if somewhat non-eventful marriage for the first 5 years.
Like all couples, we tried many ideas in order to spice up our sex life. One of which was oral sex. Believe or not, we did not try oral sex for the first 5 years of marriage. I have thought about it but was always too proper to ask. One day I did and she agreed to try it. The surprise came when our misunderstanding came to light. Apparently, my proposal was for me to pleasure my wife and after which she would reciprocate. Her idea was for me to pleasure her alone with no reciprocation on her part. She actually said that the only way the both of us were to enjoy oral sex equally was if I pleasured her. It struck me as a lot of crap but I agreed to pleasure her first, hoping she would change her mind. She came despite my clumsy first time efforts.
When it came for her to reciprocate, she said she did not feel like it. I was surprised and asked why. She hesitated and just blurted out that an uncircumcised penis is dirty and gross. She said to go have a circumcism and 'we'll see''. I was just taken aback. However I was not that desperate as to go through a circumcise for a blowjob so I left it like that. As time went on, my wife started to favor oral sex over penetrative sex. When I asked why, she said it felt better and that the pleasure could be prolonged. My wife actually holds her orgasm back regularly just so I could serve her longer orally. Soon penetrative sex became rarer and rarer. In fact we were down to once every month. My frustration and arousal grew. I often masturbated alone to relieve the pressure of constant arousal but the relief was very short-lived. At the same time, I found myself getting more and more emotionally bonded to my wife. This was most strange since we rarely made love conventionally anymore. I thought about it for a long time but was still clueless.
The only respite from my arousal and frustration was to orally pleasure my wife which was now the only few acts of intimacy she allows. I also give her footrubs and body massages. In fact her pussy became not only my object of desire but also my relief from the sexual arousal and frustration. I found myself thinking of her scent and taste whenever I become aroused. When she is not around the frustration only grew. The problem started when she started to also hold back oral sex. I did chores, errands and bought her gifts, dinners all just to be able to pleasure her orally! It made no sense but I was just compelled to do so. One day in a moment of aroused haze, I went straight to the doctors for a circumcism. I foolishly thought that if I could not enjoy penetrative sex as often then I could at least enjoy blowjobs.
The deed was done and when I told my wife, she broke into a large mirth. She smiled and said she was actually considering sex but then I was now not able to. I only groaned inwardly. Soon my penis healed and I waited for an opportune time after a romantic dinner and drinks at home to ask her for oral sex. She agreed and spread her legs, asking me to kneel. I was a little irritated then and said 'no honey I mean I went for a circumcism and you promised to you know what.' Her expression showed nothing. She just asked for me to strip and stand before her. When I finally stood naked and aroused before her, she stood up and walked to me. She looked down on me and said " I think its amusing that you actually went for a circumcision just to get a blowjob.' She held my erect penis and said ' it is certainly more hygienic, looks better and probably smells better too but the thought of sucking that is still disgusting to me.'
It was then that the frustration, humiliation just got to me. After all I endured a circumcision only to be rejected by my wife so casually. I called her a bitch and slapped her. My outburst shocked me as well as her. However I regretted it as soon as I did it. Her face grew darker than I had ever seen before. I was about to apologize when I felt the sting of her slap against my face. The slaps did not stop as she rained slap after slap. She finally stopped and said ' Who do you think you are? If I wanted you to dance naked for me, you will. If I wanted to deny you for a year, you will be denied." While her aggressive outburst and retaliation shocked me, something stirred in me. I realized that what she said was true. I realized that I was ready to do anything for her, as I never felt crazier about her. I was then overcame by a sudden and overwhelming urge to submit before her.
I knelt down and apologized. As she glared at me, I became more submissive and declared how much I love her, how sorry I was and that I was prepared to do anything for her. She pushed me to the ground on my back with her foot and before I could react she took off her panty and straddled me. She sank herself on me. I could only gasped in abject submission and pleasure. She raised herself after a few seconds and sat back on the sofa. She looked at me and it was instinctive. I crawled to her and begged to be allowed the privilege of serving her. She wordlessly held my head and lowered me to her pussy.
If oral sex is not therapeutic then this is the first. As I felt my lips pressed against her pussy, I felt all my resentment, anger and humiliation washed away. I only became aware of her scent and taste. And that was all I needed and cared about. When she came, my only thoughts were that this was actually meant to be. I wondered why I had never realized how charming and powerful my wife is.
I still find it hard to imagine how any man can be so crazy over a woman who denys him and have him humble himself by pleasuring her exclusively. I only acknowledge the power and intensity of what had transpired between my wife and I. That one incident shifted our positions in our relationship forever. I find satisfaction in submitting to her demands and desires. Now my wife exerts her control over our sex life and our finances and I could not be happier.
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